Evening, late-night and overnight babysitters

Childcare that doesn't ask where you're going.

SwingSitters connects parents with experienced, discreet babysitters who take late nights and overnights on purpose. Your night is your business. Their night is ours.

No membership. Pay per booking. Not in your city yet? Join the waitlist.

A quiet house at night under a crescent moon, with one window lit.

Home at 3 a.m.?We already knew. That's the booking.

  • We never askThere is no "occasion" box to fill in. It does not exist.
  • Late is normalSmall-hours returns and overnights are what sitters sign up for.
  • No membershipYou pay for the booking you make, and nothing in between.
  • Sitters keep 100%Their full rate, the ride-home stipend and every tip.
Sound familiar?

Tired of putting on a show for the babysitter?

You have a full adult life and children you adore. Arranging one around the other should not take a costume and a script.

  • The trenchcoat at the front door

    Dressed for your evening, then dressed over it for the forty seconds the sitter spends in the hallway.

  • The phony but plausible destination

    A work thing. A late dinner. A restaurant you looked up in advance so the details would hold.

  • Three bags for dinner with friends

    And a sitter observant enough to notice, and friendly enough to ask.

  • The midnight curfew you never agreed to

    Most sitters expect ordinary hours. Your evening is getting good right when theirs is supposed to end.

  • Home at 3 a.m., shirt inside out

    Blissfully happy, slightly rumpled, and now making small talk under the hallway light.

  • Grandparents with follow-up questions

    Family help is a gift until it comes with an interview. And sooner or later, it runs out.

There is an easier way: a sitter who never asks, and who expected you at three.

See how it works

No membership required. Going out with friends? Ask about sharing a sitter.

How it works

Three steps, and none of them is an explanation.

  1. Tell us when, not why

    Choose the date, the start time and a firm return time, or book the overnight. There is nowhere to say what the evening is for, because we do not collect it.

  2. Choose your sitter

    Profiles show experience, rates, reviews and exactly which vetting steps each sitter has passed. Send a request; once the sitter accepts, you pay and the booking is confirmed.

  3. Go out. Come home when you said.

    Your sitter arrives with your household brief, checks in, looks after your children and checks out when you are back. No raised eyebrows at the door.

The full walkthrough for parents and sitters

What makes our sitters different

Ordinary, excellent childcare. Unusually good manners.

Sitters on SwingSitters do what every good babysitter does: dinner, bath, stories, bed, and a calm house. They are also chosen for the things your last sitter was not.

Discretion is part of the job

Every sitter signs a code of conduct and a confidentiality agreement. They do not ask about your plans, remark on what you are wearing or packing, or discuss your household with anyone.

One thing confidentiality never covers: a child's wellbeing. A sitter can always report a concern or call 911. How that works.

Late nights are the default

Sitters set their availability into the small hours and are paid a premium after midnight, so a 2 a.m. return is a normal booking and not a favour. Prefer not to watch the clock at all? Book the overnight. Overnight sitters are 21 or older.

Fair pay keeps good sitters

Sitters set their own hourly rate and keep all of it, along with a ride-home stipend on late finishes, overtime at 1.5× if you run over, and every dollar of every tip. Our service fee is added on top, never taken out of their pay.

Vetting, stated plainly

Six steps before a sitter appears in search.

We would rather tell you exactly what we check than hand you an adjective. A badge on a sitter's profile appears only for a step that sitter has actually passed, and you can see which ones.

What checks can and can't tell you

Screening looks backwards. A background check reports what is on record, in the places that were searched, on the day it was run. It cannot predict behaviour, and records can be incomplete. Treat our vetting as a strong starting point, then read the profile, message the sitter and trust your own judgment about who looks after your children.

Read the whole safety and privacy page

  1. Identity verificationGovernment ID checked against the person applying.
  2. Criminal background checkRun by a third-party screening provider, including county court records and a sex-offender registry search.
  3. Two childcare referencesContacted by a person on our team, not an automated form.
  4. CPR and first-aid certificateA current certificate on file, with its expiry date tracked.
  5. Video interviewA conversation about experience, judgment, late nights and discretion.
  6. Signed code of conductIncluding confidentiality, with a clear child-safety exception.
Pricing

No membership. Just the night you booked.

Each sitter sets an hourly rate between $18 and $60. You see the full quote before you pay.

  • Three-hour minimumSo a short evening is still worth a sitter's trip.
  • $5 an hour extra after midnightFor awake hours between midnight and 6 a.m.
  • $25 ride-home stipendWhen a booking ends between 11 p.m. and 5 a.m. It goes to the sitter.
  • 15% service fee on top10% when two or three families share a sitter.
Worked example

Saturday, 7 p.m. to 1 a.m.

Two children, a sitter who charges $25 an hour.

6 hours × $25.00
$150.00
After-midnight premium, 1 hour × $5
$5.00
Ride-home stipend
$25.00
Service fee (15% of $155.00)
$23.25
You pay
$203.25

Your sitter receives $180.00, before any tip.

Shared sits

Going out with friends? Share a sitter.

Two or three families, one host home, one sitter, and the bill split per family. The service fee drops to 10%.

  • Up to four children per sitterTwo if any child is under 12 months.
  • Always in a family homeOr a hotel room registered to a parent. Never at a venue or event.
  • Organising something bigger?Event hosts and clubs can offer guests a partner code.

Shared sits and partner codes

For sitters

Night owl? Great with kids? Hard to shock?

We are looking for experienced adult babysitters who are kind, reliable and uninterested in other people's business. You set your rate. You keep all of it.

  • 100% of your ratePlus ride stipend and tips. No commission taken from you.
  • +$5 an hour after midnightAnd 1.5× overtime if parents run late.
  • $150 to $400 overnightA flat fee you set, on top of awake hours.
Opening city by city

Tell us where you are. We'll tell you when we're there.

SwingSitters is new, and we open a city only once there are approved sitters to book. Then we let families in a few at a time, so nobody signs up, searches and finds an empty page. Leave an email and a ZIP code and we will write when it is your turn.

You get two emails: one now, asking you to confirm the address, and one invitation with your personal link when there is room near you. Nothing else, unless you tick the box for updates. Every email has a one-click link to leave the list. We don't sell or share your details, and no message will mention what kind of night you might be planning, because we have no idea.

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Questions people actually ask

The awkward ones, answered straight.

Do sitters know where we're going?

No. We never ask, so there is nothing to pass on. Sitters get a household brief: your return time, a phone number you will answer, an emergency contact, and what your children need. Where you spend the evening is not part of it.

What if we're home later than planned?

There is a 15-minute grace period. After that, overtime is billed in 15-minute blocks at 1.5× your sitter's hourly rate and goes entirely to the sitter. If you suspect it will be a long one, book later than you think you need, or book the overnight.

Will the charge on my card be obvious?

The descriptor on your statement is abbreviated and does not describe the occasion. It is a childcare charge, and it reads like one.

Does confidentiality mean a sitter would stay quiet about a child's safety?

No. Sitters keep your private life private, but nothing in our agreement limits anyone from reporting a genuine concern about a child or calling 911. A parent's consensual adult relationships are not a child-welfare concern, and sitters are told so.

Read every question and answer

Your night is your business. Their night is ours.

Create an account in a couple of minutes. No membership, and no charge until you confirm a booking.